Manipur teens wait to hold hands for Yaoshang

“Thabal Chongba during Yaoshang gives us the only opportunity to hold a girl’s hands and dance with her in full public glare, without fear of parents or the society,” said 16-year-old Aribam Chhatraji

Published: 14th March 2017 02:35 AM  |   Last Updated: 14th March 2017 02:35 AM   |  A+A-

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IMPHAL:“Thabal Chongba during Yaoshang gives us the only opportunity to hold a girl’s hands and dance with her in full public glare, without fear of parents or the society,” said 16-year-old Aribam Chhatrajit, with a big smile on his face. Gender segregation is strict in the Meitei society of Manipur. This is why many young boys and girls— who otherwise would not dare express intimacy in public—are allowed, during the traditional dancing festivities, to hold hands and dance with a boy or girl of their choice in front of parents and society, without fear of rebuke.

Thabal Chongba literally means ‘the full moon dance’ and is performed on roads and grounds in every locality of Manipur during the five nights of Holi or Yaoshang festivities. Young men and women hold hands and dance in a big circle around lit tube lights to the tunes of a particular pattern for four to five hours. Generally, a pattern of music continues for an hour with 15 minute intervals.

Parents are more lenient with curfews for their children, as Thabal Chongba performances generally start at 8 pm and continue till 12 or 1 am.

“I wait the entire year to dance with the boy of my choice. I practice the steps for it,” said Thokchom Neelam. The dance pattern consists of rhythmic foot-steps that include moving a step forward, bending the knee to sway the body sidewards and then taking a step back.

“Often a boy takes the girl he likes out of the cacophony of the Thabal area to treat her to sweets and coffee. Phone numbers are also exchanged, with some relationships built during the dance getting established over a period of time,” said Surjit Usham. Several youngsters get drunk, resulting in several street fights.

An application named ‘Kumhei’ has been launched that helps teenagers track Thabal Chongba performances in various parts of Imphal valley. The app can be downloaded from Google Play Store.

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