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Bringing up 3

Director Gautham Menon who is known for his love stories Ye Maya Chesave, Gharshana, Yeto Vellipoindi Manasu and Cheli, lists his favourite screen dads and the importance of friendship in fatherhood

Published: 22nd June 2015 06:00 AM  |   Last Updated: 21st June 2015 10:59 PM   |  A+A-

He was holidaying with his family in Coonor, but the word ‘father’ got ace film director and producer Gautham Menon’s attention and we got talking about reel dads and the inspiration behind them. Having created the concept of the ‘cool’ dad in South cinema-the one who eggs his son to travel across the world and woo his girl in Surya S/O Krishnan or the father figure who dotes on his deceased lover’s daughter in the recent Yenta Vaadu Gani – Menon says he draws inspiration for his characters from his own father.

Gautham Menon.jpgRole model

“Whenever I have to write a father’s character, I pull out a memory of my dad. He was chilled out and a friend to me and my sisters, but also knew when to give us sound advice. He allowed me to pursue anything I liked – from cricket to films,” says the director, who wishes fathers were portrayed better in cinema.

Support system

Even when parenting his three sons, Menon looks to his dad for inspiration-being a friend to them and identifying their strengths and weaknesses. “I tell them that if they’re scared of something, not to shy away from it but face it bravely,” he says, adding that his sons they feel they can talk to him about anything. He says parents should let their kids be themselves, to create a space for themselves. “Be your kid’s best friend, especially if they’re daughters because a daughter-father relationship is in a different league altogether,” signs off the director, who has just finished shooting the road trip for the Tamil film Acham Yenbathu Madamaiyada, starring Simbu. 

No guesses, here

Menon says his three sons-Arya, Dhruva and Adhya-will gift him a cricket bat and a CD full of songs. “I introduced them to cricket, reading and music. So I’m sure their gift will be one of these,” he says.

 

Menon’s choice

Mani Ratnam’s Nayakudu

“What is beautiful is that despite the community thinking of Kamal’s character as a patriarchal figure, his own daughter never accepted him. His love for her went unrequited, which was beautiful and painful,” says the director.  

 

Menon’s choice.JPGPiku

“An endearing take on the father-daughter relationship. I think the way she handles her father and his constipation issues is very slice-of-life. These kinds of films make you head home feeling like sharing an equation with your parents.”  

 

Everybody’s Fine

“Hollywood films portray father figures extremely well. In this film, the father- widowed, chronically-ill man-embarks on a cross-country trip to spend time with each of his children after they turn down his offer to spend the holidays with him. It’s a beautiful portrayal of what life is all about.”


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