To Let the School Bully Out of the Bag

Author Ratna Vira’s new novel deals with the problem of school bullying and hypocricy in the education system

Published: 21st May 2016 10:00 PM  |   Last Updated: 21st May 2016 12:59 PM   |  A+A-


A couple of years ago, Ratna Vira came across a newspaper article about a young American who tried to help a black who was being bullied. Subsequently, the former received a beating and ended up in a coma. “Soon after that I met the head of an Indian educational institution who told me about the rampant bullying in his school,” says Ratna.

This proved to be the inspiration for Ratna’s second novel It’s Not About You. To be released in May-end, the novel starts with the brutal beating of Aksh, the 16-year-old son of single mother Samaira, in school and he has to be hospitalised. It prompts Samaira to investigate, and, despite a lack of co-operation from the school, she discovers that bullying does exist, teenagers have a secret life, and most of the time parents do not know their children at all. “Samaira gets an inkling about her son’s inner life when she comes across Aksh’s posts on social media, as well as his Instagram account,” says Ratna.

Even as she agonises over the slow recovery of her son, tuition teacher Mrs Khanna attacks Samaira. “Aksh did not complete his assignments, covering it up with lame excuses,” she says. “He says you want him to follow in his sister’s footsteps. That you will not hear of his ambition to play football professionally, and to study in the UWC (United World Colleges) because you want him near you. That you do not see his misery because you are so determined that your children get the right qualifications.”

And just because Samaira is a single working mother, Mrs Khanna continues to be hostile: “The problem with all you working women is that you have no time for your husband, family, in-laws or even your children. Tell me, when did you last see your own mother and father?”

It is a well-written novel, with a deep emotional resonance, especially for women, because it is written from Samaira’s perspective. Ratna has also touched upon life in high-society Delhi, with its volatile mix of politics and money, as well as the bias that women face in a patriarchal society. “And, most of the time, it is other women who inflict the suffering,” the author says.

Ratna had focused on these subjects in her first book Daughter By Court Order. It became a national bestseller and described a daughter’s fight to get her rights, even as she confronts the abuse within families.

Interestingly, in both her novels, Ratna has begun each chapter with a quotation. So, one of the chapters in the second book starts with a quote by the late actor Robin Williams: “I used to think the worst thing in life is to end up all alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel all alone.”

What is surprising is that Ratna came to writing only in her early forties. “It was only at that age that I felt that I had a story to tell,” says Ratna, who studied at St. Stephen’s College, Delhi, and the London School of Economics. “I still have more stories in me, because I have experienced life, good and bad, with my five senses.”

Finally, on being asked to give tips for aspiring authors, the full-time writer says, “Writing is a lonely occupation. So, you have to keep yourself motivated. Reward yourself when you reach a certain word count. Don’t give up. J K Rowling got 21 rejections. I often listen to her 2008 Harvard commencement speech to get inspired.”


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