Nine Steps to Being

By chasing the illusions outside you, you are straying away from the real you, while what you want is right in front of you,

Published: 02nd February 2014 06:00 AM  |   Last Updated: 01st February 2014 11:30 AM   |  A+A-


All you really want in life is to experience your true nature—the love, passion, joy, greatness… you already are.

You don’t really want to achieve all those goals lingering in your mind, you don’t really want to get anywhere else than where you are right now, you don’t really want to do more, be more, have more… The only reason why you desire all those things is because you think they will provide you with the experience and feeling of love, passion, joy, peace, security…

What you desire so much is already yours. But the tragedy is by chasing all those illusions outside of you, you are actually moving away from what you really want. Instead of closing the gap, you are actually making it bigger.

All the “things” you really want are not only already right in front of you, they are within you, they are you!  So, stop running around in circles, become aware of your true nature and you will realise and experience the wonders that are already lying within you.

The key to letting go of the illusory veil and to see clearly is to move into specific energy vibrations that correspond with who you really are.

Those nine energy vibrations are listed below. “Play” with them for at least a few minutes daily or as long as you want. While doing so, be playful and practice those energy exercises with love, passion and excitement.

Have fun and feel as good as possible while playing with those vibrations. Don’t approach it as an everyday “must-do” exercise, don’t push and force, don’t strive for perfection… let go of your mind and simply enjoy your Self while moving into those energy  vibrations.

How To Use Those 9 Energy Vibrations: Each vibration reflects your true nature and represents a very specific energy or state of being. The goal is to move into each of those vibrations, to become aware and to consciously experience those energy states. That way you will become more and more aligned with your true nature and you will resonate more and more with who you really are.

You can quickly move into any of those nine energy vibrations, simply by repeating the corresponding affirmations (listed below) either out loud or silently. Do it from your heart and not from your mind. That way, you will immediately feel and “move into” the corresponding vibration and state of being, which is already part of your true nature.

The next step is to amplify the vibration and to stay in it as long as possible. You do this, by keeping all your focus on the energy vibration, while you remain joyful and relaxed.

Here are a few ideas on how you can intensify those energy vibrations:

Use visualisation to amplify a specific energy vibration. For example, “I’m open and wide”—simply imagine how you are growing like a balloon, how you are becoming “wider and wider” until you are one with all existence, enjoy the feeling of absolute freedom, fully open your mind… Be creative and visualise, feel, hear… whatever helps you most. Meditate about those vibrations and move deeply into them.

Communicate with your higher self and write down whatever comes to your mind. Have fun discovering all those little facets about the various energy vibrations.

If you want, add your own ideas to the statements listed below. You can even change and transform them if you prefer to—just make sure the underlying energy vibration remains the same.

Wrap an entire “story” around those energy vibrations, make an exciting mind movie and use any tool that may help you amplify and stay longer in the desired energy vibration.

Do as many short (30-60 seconds) energy vibration exercises throughout the day as possible. This allows you, to quickly move back into the corresponding state of being and to stay there for most of the day.

You could play every day with a different energy vibration, or you could focus on a specific vibration for an entire week before moving on to the next. You could also use all nine vibrations every single day.

Listen to your own intuition and use those nine vibrations in whatever way resonates most with you and provides you with the most joy.

Start each day (immediately after waking up) with any of those nine energy vibrations and do the same before falling asleep.

The 9 Energy Vibrations:

* I’m open and wide

* I’m crystal clear

* I’m flowing—smooth and gentle as water

* I’m connected and aligned—with who I really am

*I’m immersed in this one, everlasting,

eternal moment

* Everything I do is filled with love, passion and excitement

* I fully trust in the process—everything unfolds the way it is supposed to

* I deeply enjoy expressing my true, unique nature —I let go of all thoughts and beliefs that don’t really belong to me

* I am—I unconditionally love myself

This is who you really are, this is your true nature—you simply need to allow it. Immerse yourself into these energy vibrations and start expressing more and more of the real you.

By becoming the real you, your life will start unfolding in a new and magnificent way—a way you probably never experienced before.

For the first time in your life you will be truly full-filled—with everything you ever dreamed of and much more. You will feel fully awake, aware and alive.

Everything in your life will suddenly start falling in place—exactly the way it was meant to be. All your worries, doubts and fears will simply fade away. And, you will no longer feel the need to chase all sorts of illusions outside of you, because you will realise and understand that nothing outside of you can give you the joy and fulfilment you are longing for.

All of this is simply a result of being the real you!

So, go and play with those nine energy vibrations. Use them every day, have fun and enjoy those magnificent states of being.

Once you are comfortably with those energy vibrations, go and teach others to do the same. Tell your friends, your family members and everyone who is open for it. But, don’t enforce it on anyone.

Tell and teach others in a way that is aligned with those nine energy vibrations: Be open, be clear, be passionate, be smooth and gentle…

And, of course, integrate those vibrations into your own life and align all your thoughts and actions —your entire being—with those energies.

(Robert Spadinger is the author of How to create the Life of Your Dreams)

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