Write a Legacy Statement

Published: 07th October 2014 06:07 AM  |   Last Updated: 07th October 2014 06:07 AM   |  A+A-


Someone once said to me that the first fifty years of life are dedicated to building one’s legitimacy while the last  fifty are devoted to building one’s legacy. How true. So many of us spend the first half of our lives striving for  achievement and struggling to gain respect. Once we have this legitimacy, whether it comes in the form of  prestige or material possessions, we soon realize that something is missing. We then spend the remaining years  of our lives trying to do what we should have done from the beginning: create a legacy.

One day, my father posted a poem on the door of our fridge. It had been translated from Sanskrit and it read simply, “Spring has past, summer has gone and winter is here. And the song that I meant to sing remains unsung. I have spent my days stringing and unstringing my instrument.” These words were written by a man whose heart was filled with regret over a life half lived. Rather than singing the great song he was destined to sing, he spent his days preparing and waiting until things were just right before he acted - “stringing and unstringing his instrument,” in his words. Sadly, that time never came.  The time to start building your legacy is today, not ten years from today when you “have more time,”  because we both know that time will never arrive. Reflect on what it is you want to create in your life and, more  importantly, what gift you wish to leave the world when you are no longer here. Greatness comes from beginning something that does not end with you.

To help me see my own life’s legacy more clearly, I have  written a personal legacy statement. While many of the corporate executives I work with have personal mission statements, few have considered scripting individual legacy statements, while the former defines your vision of  what you want to create while you live, the latter expresses what you aim to leave when you die. There is a distinction between the two. If you think about it, it will help you avoid feeling regret, sadness and  disappointment about what could have been when you reach the end of your life.

Excerpt from Who WIll Cry When You Die by Robin Sharma. www.robinsharma.com

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