Heal Your Relationship

To empower yourself in a relationship, take what people give you rather than what you want to get

Published: 26th October 2015 05:35 AM  |   Last Updated: 26th October 2015 05:35 AM   |  A+A-

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relation.JPGEvery relationship is a karmic connection. Never give up on people; there are no good or bad people. Every person and experience that comes your way teaches you some lessons. The lesson is love. The more love and acceptance you give to people and the more you help them, the more it multiplies and comes back to you.

When you are with someone, be totally present with him or her. If you are racing ahead and thinking about things, it will prevent you from enjoying the experience. So just relax and enjoy the moment. It’s time you understand that every relationship comes with a responsibility and baggage. The only way to empower yourself in any relationship is to receive what they people have to give you rather than what you want to get. People will only give you what they have. Everyone’s presence is a part of the master plan in the journey of your soul.

Understand each other’s love strategy. If your partner is all about word or affirmation then compliment  him or her and fill up their love tank. If he or she prefers physical touch, then do so to make them feel loved and wanted. What you want doesn’t necessarily equate to what they want, so find out. This could help in communication and in easing any areas of potential tension. Be an asset in the lives of others. Mistakes of your loved ones are not bigger than love for them. Remember we are all human beings and we will make mistakes. Breaking any relationship just because someone did something, which you don’t approve of, should never be an option. Take a stand for yourself and let them know how you feel but don’t give up on people. Love unconditionally.

 

(Harpreet Kaur Kandhari runs a spiritual healing centre Energy Matrix in the city.)

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