In the company of your friends, you lose your centeredness. It is your enemy that puts you back into your Self. Your friend sympathizes with you and makes you believe in matter. Your enemy makes you feel helpless and takes you to the spirit.
So your enemy is your friend, and your friend is your enemy!
Krishna said to Arjuna: One who is unfriendly everywhere - his consciousness is stable and his awareness is established...!
Sri Sri Ravi Shankar, spritual leader and founder of the Art of Living Foundation